This is a good article written by Thom Rainer titled Very Sick Churches.
I like to be a bearer of good news. I like to be able to be positive about situations, especially when those situations involve churches. At the same time, I refuse to deny reality. Such denial can only lead to a worsened condition.
For the past several months, I have been researching and writing my upcoming book, Autopsy of a Deceased Church. The book actually began with a post on this blog. The responses to that post were overwhelming, so much so that I decided to expand it to a short book that will be released by B&H Publishing in May 2014.
Churches typically do not move from good health to dying overnight. It is usually a more subtle deterioration. I have identified five simple stages:
- Health
- Symptoms of sickness
- Very sick
- Dying
- Deceased
I estimate that about 40%, or around 150,000 churches in America, are in the very sick stage. They are one stage away from being terminal.
Is it difficult for a church to move out of this stage before it becomes terminal? Absolutely. Most churches will continue to deteriorate. But I always have the hope Jesus gave us when he responded to His disciples about the rich young man: “With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible” (Matthew 19:24).
So what are some of the indicators that a church is very sick? Again, terminology and definitions are imprecise, but here are some of the more notable signs:
- Significant numerical decline over the past ten to twenty years. Most of the time we measure worship attendance for this metric.
- Prolonged times of apathy. Occasional times of intense conflict. The church seems more apathetic than anything else, but conflict can arise with surprising intensity.
- The church is not known in the community. Ask a clerk at a store in the community. You may be surprised how few even know the church exists.
- New members are rare. The exodus clearly exceeds the inflow.
- Revolving door of pastors. Frustration and conflict limit the years of pastoral tenure.
- The “good old days” are typically twenty or more years in the past. There has been a long season since anyone felt really good about the church.
Very sick churches do not have to manifest all of these symptoms, but they typically have at least three of them. Once they move to this stage, reversal of the deterioration is incredibly difficult. If the members had recognized and acknowledged the problems earlier, the help could have been more beneficial.
I do have a few examples of churches that did reverse the course of their extreme sickness to health. They are rare.
Mr. Rainer has it exactly right. The saddest part of the story is that these “sick” churches fail to recognize that they are sick. Often they will highlight declining attendance and lack of new members, but their typical response is “we have got to try harder”. This approach makes it difficult for the Pastor and often leads to internal church conflicts. Once the conflict stage is reached, the church has gone from sick to critically ill, rather than dealing with the source of the conflict the church lets the situation simmer and deteriorate. The result is often the loss of the Pastor, followed by losses of membership. These losses further exacerbate the problem. Who wants to lead or attend a church that is so set in its ways that it has totally lost is both its spiritual focus and over all perspective? Those few within the “sick” church that recognize the illness, are ostracized, ignored, and often alienated within the church body. The answer of the church is to “fix blame” rather than fixing the problem. I have personally experienced being a member of a church that exhibited all six characteristics described by Mr. Rainer. In the end, me and family had to leave and find another church to worship in. The good news is that there are still many healthy churches available if you take the time to look.
Well said Spence! God bless.