Yeah… that was a tough stretch in your life. Yes… it was hard and you were wounded deeply. I know… what “they” did was wrong, it was sinful, improper, and nothing like a Christian should act. But it’s been a long time since all that happened. Trust me… if that person does think about you there’s a good chance it is not with love, grace, or mercy. So honestly, it is time to let it go. Get over it for your own good.
HOW? DO what you say you believe as a Christian…
Ro 12:10 Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.
Mt 20:26 Whoever would be great among you must be your servant, 27 and whoever would be first among you must be your slave…
Phil 2:3 Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. 4 Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.
1 Pet 5:5 Be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”
Ro 12:14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. 17 Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. 18 If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. 19 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” 20 To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink… 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.